Wednesday | What I'm Reading
I like to read.
I need to read.
I communicate for a living.
That requires a full tank of thoughts.
On Wednesdays, I share my current reads.
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I am a huge Peggy Noonan fan. She is a master of the communication craft. If you are a student of communication, you study masters. She is worth studying. I not only learn from what she says, but the way she says it...her grammar, her style, her cadence, her word-choice.
Noonan is responsible for some poignant moments in modern American rhetoric.
She penned some of Reagan's most memorable speeches, including his words after the Challenger Disaster and the 40th Anniversary of D-Day (Boys of Pointe du Hoc).
She also inspired some of Bush 1's memorable lines:
a thousand points of light
a kinder, gentler nation
Read my lips...
Her style is unique. Some would peg her as pretentious. I see her as intentional and deliberate.
The way she speaks is the way she writes...thoughtfully, conversationally, with depth and clarity.
I bought this book years ago, and last week I decided to pick it up. I wrote a post last Thursday, expressing a desire for more civility and maturity in public and private discourse. This seemed like a good follow-up.
Overall I liked the book. It's Peggy.
I had a few things to overcome:
It was written just prior to the 2008 election, so it is time-bound. I had to return emotionally to Fall 2008 to experience what she was saying in context. The reality of the last four years, versus the hope for change that existed back then is rather stark. I needed to erase what is and return to hope for what might have been.
She talks of impending crisis. For her, the focus was on another terrorist attack. This book was released on 9/30/08, written before our financial meltdown. Crisis was on the horizon, but the explosion was financial. All she says about the need for leadership still applies if you replace her fear of another 9/11/01 with the reality of 9/15/08.
The middle section was a bit Bush-bashy. Didn't seem to fit well in a book about grace.
She, like me, and so many others, longs for one simple thing...we long for maturity. A maturity that can extend good will, believing the other person might actually have good intentions even if their opinion differs.
Maturity. That's all. Let's be adults. Let's act like adults. American adults.
I appreciate the fact that she does not line up with those who simplistically think that the solution is to do away with partisanship. When I hear people speak in lofty terms of moving beyond partisanship, I cringe. At its core, people are suggesting one party, one opinion, one mindset. Really? The problem is not differing opinions, the problem is an inability to extend grace to those with whom we disagree.
She writes, "Politics is a great fight and must be a flight; that is the purpose. We are a great democratic republic, and we struggle with great questions." She goes on to say, "But we can approach things in a new way, see in a new way, speak in a new way. We can fight honorably and in good faith, while – and this is the hard one – both summoning and assuming good faith on the other side." (41)
The book has a number of moving anecdotes. She tells a story so well.
It also has many thought-provoking lines:
For more and more Americans, politics has become a religion. It has become a faith. People find their meaning in it. They define themselves by their stands. When politics becomes a religion, then simple disagreements become apostasies, heresies. And you know what we do with heretics. (50)
Crisis is a great editor. (63)
Being able to persuade, to explain, to elucidate, and to lead truthfully, matters. (93)
I believe there is a general and amorphous sense that things are broken and that tough history is coming. (119)
A nation that does not know why it exists, or what it stands for, cannot be expected to long endure… We cannot expect that a nation which has lost its memory will keep its vision. (151)
Noonan offers a number of reason for why we are where we are. They include the political climate post 9/11, the decentralization of news sources (we do not share the same news sources anymore--154) and the rise of sourceless, non-vetted opinion blathering made possible by technology (blogs, social media, etc.).
One reason she nails for our dive into coarseness as a society is the ability to bloviate anonymously. Verbal snipers. Sneaky character assassins. Cowards who would never say what they think to your face but find their guts behind a keyboard in a darkened room.
I love technology. I embrace it. I've blogged since 2005. I was Facebooking before most 40-year-olds knew it existed. I embrace it, but I also despise it. Faceless conversations...lack of eyeball-to-eyeball talk coarsens our discourse. The gutless find a voice, and that voice is seldom a speech that builds up. Anonymous tends to bring out the worst in us.
Let's wrap this up...
I have to admit, I have little hope for change.
Last night the Republican Convention opened. This morning, we all turned to the cable source or internet site that reinforces our predisposition. Want to think that Christie hit it out of the park? Turn to Fox. Want to think that Mrs. Romney blew it? Go to MSNBC. We've become a nation that simply reinforces our biases rather than listening...and the divide continues to widen and deepen.
My solution this season has been to turn it all off. I have to say, while it feels better, it also feels irresponsible. I want to know the facts and the issues. I am in the daily habit of listening to the other side. More than once this political season I've had to turn the TV off when I, as a conservative, was accused of wanting to put people back in chains or being a hate-filled bigot who wants to change the name of our country to Caucasia. I want to have an honest conversation, but I'm tired of being insulted. I do not want to throw old ladies off cliffs--neither does Paul Ryan who I deeply admire.
I do not long for dirty air or polluted water.
Like I said, I have little hope for change.
In the meantime, I will do what I can do. I will do my best to put relationship before being right. I will not post on a site what should be said to a face, an I will never comment it without my full name attached to it. I will extend grace to those who disagree, and I will make an honest effort to assume good faith on the other side.
This for me, this will be hardest of all when my views are being labeled as bigoted and hate-filled.
But I will try.